This worked for me for the GE/Jasco 45600. I just bought mine for $10 including shipping.
1) Include the remote on Vera (like you would any ZWave switch). Run the wizard. Press Setup on the remote and hold till the double flashes. Then type 967 on the remote. The light will flash green continuously and stop when Vera finds it. From here, follow the normal inclusion procedure to name your new scene controller, put it into the right room, etc.
2) Add events to the scenes you want to activate with the remote. Device is the GE 45600 (or 45601), for example "Scene controller K". What type of event is the trigger? "A Scene is activated", Name for this event - I use "Scene ON" where # is the key 1-9, and Scene number is the corresponding button on the remote (1-9). At this point the ON side of the button will run the ON scene.
3) Re-include the remote. The light will flash green continuously, stop for a second and then double flash when Vera finds it.
4) Add events to the scenes you want to de-activate with the remote. Device is "Scene controller K". "A Scene is de-activated", scene name - I use "Scene OFF", and Scene number is the corresponding button on the remote. At this point the OFF side of the button will run the OFF scene too.
Now I'm going to watch some TV. The GE 45600 to turn the TV Scene on and turning off all the rest of the house lights the kids leave on with their corresponding OFF scenes.
Let me know if it worked for you
Vera2 (1.1.1245, UI4); ACT ZRW113W; GE/Jasco 45600, 45602, 45604, 45605 x3, 45606 x4, 45609 x11, 45614; Hawking HRDS1 x3; Intermatic CA9000 x2; Schlage BE369GR, WCE100; Trane TZEMT400AB32MAA